Memories...
Monday, October 15, 2007
ON LOVE"Love does not consist in gazing at each other. But in looking outward together in the same direction."
I always feel very happy for friends who get into a relationship, even though I may not noe some of them very well. =)
Haha, how should I put it. I guess I just feel sweet for them. Its really a heartwarming sight to see a couple find bliss and love in the middle of our hectic little world, esp in Singapore.
I know people think a lot before they venture into a relationship. Esp for girls haha. Nothing wrong with that. But sometimes its only when one dare to take a step out, can u find true adventure and bliss.
A ship in harbour will always be safe. But thats not what ships are meant for isnt it?
Opening our hearts out is 1 of the most fearful things for both men and women. Becoz it makes us vulnerable. Makes us nervous. Makes us unsure of the future. Makes us irrational. Makes us lose control of our destiny.
I read somewhere before that historically, the life of most girls are quite peaceful and orderly. And that most girls are (supposedly) rather contented with their lives most of the time. Haha, and so the article says that as guys, we need to know how to come in n make the lives of girls messy n complicated in a positive sense.
But in any case, if we dun open our hearts at the right time, we ll never noe what the future entails isnt it? =)
And I always feel that at the end of the day, (touch wood) even if things didnt work out, you will always learn from your experience. Learn from your mistakes, and learn what you could have done better in.
And that ll make you a better lover, and a better partner in your future relationships. =)
Learning how to love...ahh...
These are lessons in life that you are never taught in the classroom.
