Memories...
Thursday, March 13, 2008
ON DUNNO WHAT TO SAY
XXX said to me: "Hock ah Hock ah!!" "Why u still bother with him and waste your time??!! You know he's like that wan just let him be lor. He happy can oredi mah."
Me: "You noe me what, i say things very direct wan. Sometimes end up saying things that people dun like to hear."
XXX: "So many people heel4 lan3 him oredi. Dun waste your breath lah."
Me: "He's ok wan lah. Just that sometimes he talks too much. If u dun tell him some things he ll never noe himself."
XXX: "But if u tell him and then he dun listen you are wasting your own time and breath also what."
Me: "Friends should tell each other outright their flaws mah. Last time Gerard also always niao me straight in the face. Always say i bad temper. Keep lecturing me like some old man. Sometimes i also buey tahan, but when i look back and reflect about it, I realized he was right all along. Do u noe that there were a few nights I actually went up to him, thanked him for criticizing me, and apologized for my shitty behaviour? "
XXX: "Yes, but that still doesnt mean that u should impose what you hope to see in another person, and hope that he ll change. At the end of the day, u should also accept a person, especially a friend, for who he is."
Me: "I never say i never accept what, just that i hope that he can be a better man. He has oredi improved quite a lot liao, shud spur him on somemore mah."
XXX: "That is his own decision and prerogative, not yours."
Me: "....Ok, point taken. I shud just keep my big mouth shut now."
XXX: "Good. Aiyah, anyway not say u very perfect also what."
Me: "I never did say i was perfect!! I have lots of flaws too."
XXX: "Ya la. Precisely. So just keep quiet lor."
Me: "Ok ok."
